THIS.Honestly, I don't think I could've said this better myself, and I have definitely given people this talk before. This brutal truth of this breaks my heart. Please just read this and try to really understand it. This is so important, and I can't stress it enough. I'm so thankful that there are people like John Pavlovitz in the world who are able to see things with such clarity and aren't afraid to speak out about things that other people refuse to address. I love this post, and I wish that more people could see this.